Significance of the Paul-Clara relationship in “Sons and Lovers.”

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Bring out the significance of the Paul-Clara relationship in “Sons and Lovers.” [NU: 2016, 20] ★★★

In “Sons and Lovers” (1913), D. H. Lawrence (1885–1930) shows different kinds of love. Paul’s bond with Miriam is spiritual. But with Clara Dawes, it is physical and passionate. Their relationship shows passion, struggle, and Paul’s deep tie to his mother.

Passion and Desire: Paul finds in Clara what he misses in Miriam. She is bold, mature, and separated from her husband. With her, Paul feels the passion of the body. She gives him warmth and fire. The narrator says, 

“The Queen of Sheba was Clara.”

The Queen of Sheba in the Bible was famous for her beauty and wisdom when she visited King Solomon. By calling Clara “the Queen of Sheba,” Lawrence shows that Clara is proud and attractive.  Their bond shows Paul’s hunger for physical love. Clara offers him desire, but not lasting peace.

Incomplete and Troubled: Clara cannot give herself fully to Paul. She still has feelings for her husband, Baxter Dawes. Paul, too,  cannot give his whole heart. His mother holds his soul. So their passion is only half. The narrator says,

“He could not be free to go forward with his own life, really love another woman.”

This shows the failure of the bond. Their love is strong in body but weak in spirit.

Symbol of Paul’s Struggle: The Paul–Clara tie shows the larger theme of the novel. Paul cannot escape his mother’s chain. Even in Clara’s arms, he feels pulled back to Gertrude. Finally, Clara returns to Baxter. Paul remains alone. It proves love without freedom, balance, and soul cannot last.

The Paul–Clara relationship is significant because it shows passion without fulfilment. It gives Paul desire but no peace. Clara cannot win him because his mother rules his heart. This relationship completes the novel’s theme: love fails when bound by possessiveness and incompleteness.