Theme of Love and Marriage in “Pride and Prejudice.”

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Elucidate the theme of love and marriage in Jane Austen’s “Pride and Prejudice.” [NU: 2016, 18, 22] ★★★ 

Jane Austen’s (1775-1817) novel “Pride and Prejudice” (1813) is a brilliant portrayal of love, marriage, and human relationships in the early 19th-century English society. Through different couples, Austen explores how people marry for different reasons. Some for love, some for wealth, and some for social security. The central idea is that true love must be based on mutual respect and understanding. 

Elizabeth and Darcy – Real Love:  The central love story between Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy is the heart of the novel. At first, both characters are imperfect. Darcy is proud of his wealth and social class. Elizabeth is prejudiced. She believed Wickham’s lies and judged Darcy too quickly. Darcy’s first proposal is full of pride.  At first, he says, 

“You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you,” 

He also says that he loves her, 

“Despite the inferiority of her connections.” 

However, Elizabeth rejects him because he insults her family. He appears arrogant. Later, Darcy writes her a letter and explains everything, including why he thought Jane didn’t love Bingley. After reading the letter, Elizabeth says:

“Till this moment, I never knew myself.”

This moment marks the beginning of self-awareness for both. When Darcy proposes a second time, Elizabeth accepts. Their relationship becomes a symbol of mature and true love. Their love is formed through personal change and mutual respect.

Jane and Bingley – Innocent and Sweet Love: Jane and Bingley’s love is simple, innocent, and sweet. However, it faces obstacles due to social pressure. Darcy believes Jane does not truly love Bingley because she hides her emotions. As a result, Bingley is influenced to leave her. Eventually, the misunderstanding is cleared, and they marry. Their relationship shows that honest and kind-hearted people can have a happy and stable marriage.

Charlotte Lucas and Mr. Collins – Marriage for Money: